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The Participation Trophies Were Never The Problem
I know you wouldn’t expect any less from a millennial but:
The participation trophies were never the problem.
Granted, in my school here in Wales in the UK, not even the winners got a trophy — more like a ribbon with a safety pin, or a sticker with 1st on it.
Those who didn’t win got something which said ‘I did it!’ or ‘Well done,’ etc.
Participation trophies prepared us for a world where sometimes you’ve got to try anyway, even if there’s no way you’ll get across that line first. It taught us to value ourselves, and our own efforts.
What did hurt us was learning that the best don’t win, the judges aren’t ubiased, cheaters prosper, talent and hard-work are seldom rewarded.
You taught us to believe that we’d find success if we just worked hard enough, and forgot to build a world where that was true.
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